This post was inspired by this post here.

Hot or pretty? I don’t like it when guys treat me as if I**ahem** am a sex object to be stared at. (No, I don’t dress immodestly most of the time I’m in jeans or a knee length skirt) I would much rather be called a pretty girl then a “hot babe”. Seriously, if you guys think this is a turn on think again! I don’t give a guy half a chance if he whistles and shouts “Hey babe, what’s up!!” SERIOUSLY????? I might look innocent and sweet, but I HATE these comments!

I want to ask you something- How would you describe Taylor Swift? Most people would describe her as pretty and innocent and I agree. However, how would you describe Miley? I would say you would probably say that she is “hot”. If you compare the way she dresses to the way Miley Cyrus dresses, which would you rather be like? I’ll be like Taylor thank you very much.
Let me explain something to you, most of the time when you dress like a “hot chick” then you will get treated like a plaything and a toy that guys can use. However, if you dress like a pretty innocent young lady then guys will instantly want to respect and protect you. (In my experience though sometimes it doesn’t matter what you wear and guys will still be jerks!)

See my point? When guys see a girl dressed modestly and looking like a girl should, something clicks in their brain. They instantly want to protect and respect you. Dressing pretty will ensure that guys will WANT to win your heart, protect it, and love you.
However, when you dress up in a micro-mini skirt and corset type top, guys will think that you are cheap and they can easily get you. They won’t want to protect or love you. They just want your body.
Something that Emma Watson once said really stuck with me: “Modesty is hottest, and the more you keep covered the more people can wonder.”
I know that Emma and Taylor have both worn some questionable things, but compared to Katy Perry and Miley Cyrus they both seem to be all around sweethearts!

My point is, is that we don’t have pretty anymore. We have hot. I say that we bring pretty back! And maybe along the way we will uncover some guys who are being suffocated by all the “hot” girls out there. Remember, for every pretty girl this is a hundred “hot” girls.

It’s your choice, will you be a pretty girl or a hot girl? You CAN be a beautiful, modest, and pretty girl. Me? I choose the pretty girl. And even if the guys go for the hot girls- remember they respect the pretty girls. And I’d rather be respected any day then be treated like a object that is just there for play and fun.